Monday, November 28, 2016

Luc's 5th Birthday Party

Everything is Awesome! 






Luc's birthday fell on the actual day of the week he was born and on the day of his party. Besides the usual family that comes, Luc invited Vasna, Blake and Briley, and some kids from his class: Kira, Ryan, and Emma.

I found some decorating ideas on Pinterest since Lego doesn't give away the rights for party supplies to be made. I bought 60 yellow cups and drew different Lego faces on each cup. And I'm proud of myself for letting go and getting the cake made at Wegmans instead of killing myself to do it myself and make it look nice and Frederic having to save my butt.


The Birthday Boy!




I also found a party game on Pinterest for his Lego-themed party, freeze a Lego guy minifig in ice. The kids had to use warm water, salt, chopsticks, and metal forks to excavate the guys. They had a lot of fun racing to see who could do it first.

As party favors, I gave Lego sets. I bought a large container that came with instructions to make about 9-10 different things. Frederic and I made them a few nights before, printed off instructions, and put them in bags. There was a dinosaur, a submarine, a shark, a pirate ship, etc.
I also borrowed a Lego guy silicon mold from my brother. My intention was to make gummie candies, but the reality of the situation is I didn't have the time or the energy, and would definitely need another mold. So instead, I took some old RoseArt crappy crayons, smashed them up, put different colors shavings in each mold and melted them into Lego guy crayons.

I was pretty busy keeping the flow of the party going and not letting the kids get too distracted with playing with toys or hide n seek, that I forgot to take a lot of pictures of the actual party.
I did get some cake pics (thank you, Frederic, for decorating the cake with the Legos)!








 Happy Birthday, Monkey!


Saturday, November 26, 2016

Luc is 5!

Our little monkey is 5 years old today. 5 Years! Technically no longer a preschooler, he is now a little boy. I see how much taller he is when he's reaching into the fridge, looking in the cabinets, sitting on the couch, and grabbing off the kitchen counter.
I just don't know where to begin...

Height: 39.5 inches
Weight: 32.6 lbs
Shoe size: 10.5
Clothes sizing: 4T-5T

Best Friends: Kira, Vasna, Ryan

Loves: School, his bike, racing cars, being outside, swimming, the beach, playing in the snow, the playground, helping garden the flowers and herbs on the deck, one-on-one time, jumping on Daddy & Mommy's bed, board games

Dislikes: Sharing with Aria (99% of the time), veggies, sleeping by himself ("I get lonely at night in my bed."), the dark, when Aria gets into his box of treasures, dressing himself

Luc is such a wonderful child. Though he has more bouts of jealousy with Aria, he's kind, smart, funny, observant, and fun. He's still shy and takes awhile to warm up to some things and people. He proceeds with caution, knows when he's hit his limit, and is overall still pretty obedient. He doesn't like to say goodbye to people. He doesn't like to give or get kisses when he's pressured into it.
I love to see him shower his sister with attention and affection. I beam with pride when he takes care of her and watches out for her too.

Luc's favorite thing he did each day (during the week) is "go to school." On the weekends, he's constantly asking us when he goes back to school again, how many more days.
Luc is getting more and more curious and takes in everything he learns. And he also loves to see how things work. My parents had their front door redone and Luc was so fascinated how it got fixed. In the evening, if we play a game with Luc before his bedtime, I turn off the kid TV show and put on HGTV. That same day, I did that. Luc usually isn't interested and will ignore the TV (hence why I do it). But this night, he started watching Property Brothers and how one of the guys was installing a new window in the house. Luc finally turned around and told me, "I'm interested in that kinda stuff now. I saw Grandma's door get fixed today. So now I want to see, you know, grown up stuff. ... it looks like hard work."

He loves music, especially singing, though sometimes he's even too shy in front of just me to sing a new song. When Luc learned the Veggie Tale's 'The B-I-B-L-E" song, he couldn't stop singing it all night long. And he was singing it a little too loudly. But how can you tell him to stop when it's a church song? It was just too cute too.

Luc craves to go outside every day, sometimes more than once or twice a day.
He also asks "How can I help?" or "What can I do?" whenever we're cooking, making something, fixing something, etc. We're taking advantage, even if it means a little mess.

What do you want to be when you grow up? Astronaut or a Helicopter Delivery Pilot
Favorite color? purple and blue
Favorite thing to do? play in the tent with Aria
Favorite song? "The B-I-B-L-E", "Who Built the Ark," "Go Tell it on the Mountain"
Favorite movie? The Lego Movie
Favorite TV show? "I can only pick two: Maya the Bee and Blaze."
Favorite food? brownies
Favorite toy? remote-controlled cars
Favorite part of school? Besides playing with Kira outside- Music Class.


Luc,
You're entering a new phase and one in which I haven't prepared myself for at all. I feel as though I'm entering a new phase as well and facing the fact that as you age, so do I. Yes, that's logical (as you will say) but it's something more than that too.
You're growing, you're coming more into your own, you're more helpful, smarter, more curious, more emotional, and more a lot of other things. Your opinions and ideas are mostly all your own, though I can guide them a little sometimes. I love to see how your head works. I love to listen to you when you come up with a solution to something (even a world problem). I'm fascinated to see how you came up with that reasoning. And usually, in small scale, it does makes sense and would work.
I'm more proud of you too.
You can do so much more for/by yourself now too. I don't fear as much when you're climbing on the playground, I don't watch you when you run to make sure you don't fall. I'm confident to let you play on the deck with your remote-controlled car, by yourself or watching Aria when I have to turn my eyes away.
My favorite memories of you this year is repeating things you've learned in school, strengthening your belief and understanding of Jesus, and taking care of your sister. Even though you've also gotten more jealous of Aria and Mommy not spending enough one-on-one time with you, you take care of Aria like a big brother should. I love when you stop teasing and dance with Aria in the kitchen, or start brushing her hair for her when you get out of the bath. You're such a good brother when you make sure she doesn't fall down the steps, or needs help climbing onto a chair. When Mommy's hands are busy, you will help her with a toy she cannot open or get untangled. I pray your relationship will only strengthen and the love between you will grow. She is the only one in the whole world who will understand where you come from and how you were really raised. You'll have a bond no one else can come between. She is your lifetime friend.

You're my first born and we're connected by a bond of entering this family life together, not knowing what to expect, not knowing how to handle new phases, and figuring it all out together.
You're such an amazing kid, with a personality and character to match. You're gonna go so far in this life. I just know it.
I love you, Monkey.
-Mommy

Thursday, November 3, 2016

My lil Soccer Player

Frederic and I aren't football and baseball lovers. We love soccer. So we're biased and yes, we are "steering" Luc to love soccer as well.
I want to be a Soccer Mom. I want to sit and watch soccer games where I enjoy the sport, not football where they stand around half the time, or God forbid, baseball where it's slow and could run over hours and hours. Yawn.

Since Luc was enjoying kicking a soccer ball around with Frederic this summer, and was actually doing pretty well, we decided to sign him up to be on a team. Luc was on board.
Unfortunately, the first practice was also during a heat wave in September. The first practice, everyone was dying. I was sitting in the shade with Aria sweating my butt off. We all bathed when we got home.
But then we missed two weeks being in Belgium, and Luc only had negative memories about soccer (not to mention his jersey is like a dress and he hates that. I have to use my hair tie to tie it back). So it's been pulling tooth and nail getting him to go back each week. Even Frederic being the assistant coach wasn't helping. Finally, I took notice.
The first hour of practice is technical. Luc does great, smiles, and seems to like that part. The last half hour is a scrimmage. Either our team cuts in half, or we group with the other boys of the same age from another team. That's when it goes downhill. Luc stands at the goal, will break down in tears with one look from me and a "Go get the ball, Luc!". He eventually comes over to me, begging to stay out, that he's tired and done. I let him. But I observed (difficult while chasing after Aria the whole time).
First, Luc didn't want me to take Aria to the playground while he was practicing. So I started staying. This helped. I've made sure to cheer him on, etc. Then I changed from the "we paid lots of money for you to do this, you have to go!" To "Do the first hour, that you enjoy, and you can sit out of the scrimmage after you try a little." That was the compromise of success. And I noticed, Luc doesn't like the scrimmage because he's the smallest (and youngest) on his team. There are a few huge kids and a few really aggressive kids who go after the ball all the time. Since the kids are 5, there are no rules in the scrimmage, which I explained to Luc is not a real soccer game. In real soccer, there are rules, positions on the field, yellow cards, red cards. That helped him understand. One day he even got punched in the chest.
Luc is just not aggressive. He won't go after the ball when all these big kids are beating him to it and fighting over it. I told Frederic, watching the scrimmages it like watching a rugby match. I don't blame Luc for not wanting to be there, standing off to the side, and not wanting to get hurt. I wouldn't think that was fun either. And he's not the only boy to do this.
But of course, as we have one more practice left, the second to last practice, all the kids were getting better and Luc actually stayed on the field the whole time during the scrimmage. Now we'll have the winter break and start up again in Spring, and start all over learning the skills and getting brave enough to stay in the action.

But at least he's trying new things.


The end of Fall season

Tuesday, November 1, 2016

Lots of Tricks! Lots of Treats!

Saturday Luc's school did a Trunk or Treat event. We decided to attend this year and got there at the same time as Luc's bestie, Kira. Total coincidence.
After picking up Aria's Minnie Mouse costume at a consignment shop for $6, Luc decided he didn't want to be a ghost anymore. He wanted to match Aria and be Pluto. Then all the sudden he wasn't interested in that anymore and wanted to be a spider. Even though he doesn't like spiders at all!
One Pinterest search later, and ...



Luc ended up with little candy because he wouldn't take more than one piece from people. Aria only took 2 pieces from people because she was being shy. The school had a table set up where you could decorate a paperbag and donate some of your candy to the local policemen and firemen. So we did that, because honestly, we don't need all this candy in the house.

Kira & Luc



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Halloween day was a rush of getting home, dinner precooked for Frederic and I to eat after the kids went to bed after trick or treating, getting dinner made and making the kids eat theirs, putting costumes on, and get some pictures before we ran off.

Aria was super excited about Halloween. She kept twirling her dress, running around, saying Hi to everyone, and shouting "How-a-WeeN!"






Super excited face

The Loot!